At times, you go by for years, stumbling at a thing, challenged but never overcoming the struggle, building a narrative for yourself that you are limited in your being and are not meant to prevail.
But then the universe does a trick and the grind suddenly changes. You acquire another perspective to look at the same life struggle. It feels like someone just walked into a dark room, and switched on the light hearing you stumble all across.
And voilà! You suddenly not only feel but start seeing stuff around you, things you were bumping against, their shape, their nature of obstruction, and for the first time, you have light. The obstacles remain. But now you choose to move differently.